The Spirit of an Affordable Christmas Past

According to the National Retail Federation spending for Christmas in 2025 is expected to pass $1 Trillion dollars for the first time. The current administration would like us to believe that since spending is up it must mean that everyone is doing okay. Well, as a poor white trash mother in the middle of nowhereContinue reading “The Spirit of an Affordable Christmas Past”

Big Glass Houses

*Forewarning: This is an angry rant brought on by too many interactions with willfully ignorant people. The number of people I know who have truly made it on their own, no handouts or hand ups from family or the government, can be counted on one hand.  Over the past few weeks the members of FoxContinue reading “Big Glass Houses”

Why “Hermitess”?

I’ve had a few ask why I chose to name my blog A Hermitess. For starters, I just really like the word. My initial thought after seeing the word Hermitess was that I wanted to pluck it up and put it in a collection for later use. I’m not sure if the word aligns withContinue reading “Why “Hermitess”?”

A Heathen In God’s Country

I have a secret. I no longer identify as a christian. Maybe you live in a bigger city or some place where that’s no big deal, but putting those words out there in my town, where a church sits on every street corner, is social suicide. I can’t say I haven’t occasionally felt pulled toContinue reading “A Heathen In God’s Country”

Family Tree

They chopped it down. Moving throughThat land between two riversIn stampedesOf angry growling machines-Hell bent on profitable purpose And a desire to burnThose softGreenblanketed hillsTurning the dirt over,Into the kind of green-which burned inside their pockets To them it was just a tree-A 100 year old oak,Firmly planted,In a 20 acre spreadBought and paid for-byContinue reading “Family Tree”

Does Tabitha’s Coffee Get Cold?

I can’t count the number of times that I’ve started to write and then found something to clean.  Get my area ready, coffee poured and then I find that I need to clean the litter box or an animal needs feeding and their feeding area needs to be cleaned. The floor needs sweeping, the dishesContinue reading “Does Tabitha’s Coffee Get Cold?”

Grandma’s School of Decorating

It’s late and I’m writing. I wish I knew why I can’t seem to write during the day while the kids are at school and my husband is at work. No, the words can’t start flowing until after 10pm. When I’m teetering on the edge of sleep happiness. I feel as though I’m preparing forContinue reading “Grandma’s School of Decorating”